Emotional First Aid

Energy hygiene & nervous system regulation for sensitives

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Hi, I'm Lisa. I'm a Wildheart & HSP (a highly sensitive person), and for 20 years, I've been healing from complex childhood trauma.

Determined to find something to ease the emotional PAIN, I went to therapy. I still go.

I also read all the books and attended all the courses, lectures and workshops. I'm still learning. I'm a life-long learner. I'm also a SURVIVOR. I've been through darkness and I'll sit with you in yours.

What would have been helpful, was if somebody could have shown me their cliffnotes. Especially, the easy and practical ways to SOOTHE and REGULATE my frazzled nervous system. 

So, here it is! I've put my favs into this beautifully crafted emotional first aid kit. What took me 20 years, you can read in a couple of hours.

I had no idea I was BURNT OUT from living in survival mode, or even that I was highly SENSITIVE. Fuelled by wine, coffee and cigarettes, I would end the week exhausted. That was until I discovered that my nervous system needed a DIFFERENT type of self-care.

It took way more time and patience than I anticipated, so I'd like to save you the bother.
Maybe you can relate to some of these:

✔  I'm prone to dissociate when life gets OVERWHELMING. This is a common coping strategy from growing up in chaos and dysfunction. Children cannot leave, so they leave their bodies and stay in the room.
✔  I would spend hours in my head fighting all the UNWANTED ANXIOUS thoughts - they were relentless!
✔ I was completely out of touch with my body. I ignored all its WARNING signs.
✔ I smiled and carried on KEEPING BUSY until eventually my body couldn't hold on any longer.
✔ I had stomach pains, chest pains and hip pain. My body was screaming at me to LISTEN.
✔ I would burst into TEARS at the slightest thing.
✔ I was HYPERVIGILANT, fearing that when I left the house, I would burn it down. I'd double check I hadn't left a candle burning, and I'd triple check I had locked the front door.
✔ My anxiety was off the charts and I started to have EMOTIONAL FLASHBACKS.
✔ I wondered how I could end it all. I felt EXHAUSTED and I wanted out.

I discovered I had C-PTSD (Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder).

Inside this fabulous healing emotional first aid kit you'll find EXACTLY what you NEED when you're a highly sensitive Wildheart feeling overwhelmed, anxious & stressed 👇

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1- Over 20 practical TECHNIQUES 
for regulating your nervous system. 

- they are QUICK, easy and fun. Honestly, the simple stuff is the best! Besides, when you're triggered, you don't have the brain capacity for anything else.

- They are tried and tested by me along the way. I've also taught them to clients (adults and children) so they can feel more IN CONTROL of what's happening in their bodies. 
There's even ones in there for you if you don't or can't MEDITATE.

2- My Energy Hygiene Routine for taking care of your highly SENSITIVE temperament.

I share with you my simple daily practices that will CLEANSE, ground and protect your energy. They don't take long, and I've woven them into my daily routine, just like putting my face on and cleaning my teeth. They help MANAGE and REDUCE STRESS. If I forget to do them, I really notice the difference. It's preventative maintenance.
3- Answers to these 6 QUESTIONS:
(that I get asked all the time!)

1. How do I know if I'm triggered?
2. How do I know which techniques to use?
3. How do I feel my feelings?
4. How do I deal with my anger?
5. It's not working, what am I doing wrong?
6. Why can't I remember to do the techniques when I'm triggered?

4 - My Story: Coming Out of Survival Mode 

I share parts of my story to give you REAL life insight. You'll feel seen and validated. You're not getting it wrong and you are not alone! You're so bloody courageous! 
I'll tell you:

- What healing is really like raw and unfiltered (no spiritual bypassing here!)
- What worked and helped most
- What made it worse (and I kept ignoring) 
- How to stay motivated and positive when you feel like giving up
- Where I got stuck and signs that you're healing
- What life is like on the other side of survival mode

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An angel on my shoulder!

"I can’t remember how I found you, but I’m so glad I did. I can definitely feel the right shifts here doing this work with Lisa. I am pleasantly SUPRISED as I’m not at all ‘woo woo’, but honestly you are like an angel on my shoulder!”

Why don't they teach this at school?

"I hadn’t really appreciated how much these techniques POSITIVELY IMPACT all areas of my life. It’s been such a profound realisation. I’m so grateful to have found you. I wish I had learned this sooner. 
Why don't they teach this at school?" 

A decent night's sleep!

"I wish we’d known about this sooner. Lisa really understands. She's the kind of person you want to keep in your back pocket always. My daughter has reduced falling asleep time from 2 hours to 20 minutes. It's INCREDIBLE!"

Take control of your life & start listening to your body TODAY! You're worth taking care of.
44-pages of lived experience (no therapeutic jargon) that will help you make sense of the madness:

✔ Understand your highly sensitive temperament and what it needs to THRIVE.
✔ Learn practical techniques that CALM anxiety, frustration and panic.

✔ Learn how to SOOTHE all your feelings instead of resorting to unhelpful coping strategies, like comfort eating or scrolling on your phone.
✔ Protect yourself from STRESS and all the NEGATIVE impacts it has on your health. 

✔ Read my story, raw and unfiltered with all the f*ck ups...so you don't have to. You're welcome!

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